This is a test run to see if I can set this up properly so I can share my pictures of India and Nepal. I’m not even packed. I have stuff all over the bed and the floor that I have to narrow down to what fits in a carry on roller bag and a small back pack. Did I mention that I’ll be traveling for 5 week? Ha!
I may have to ship back my cold climate clothes after Nepal to make room for a kurta or two and gifts. No one is getting a harmonium this year. Let me know if this worked in the comment box.
Well, it was a good plan, but I rarely had wifi and/or time, so here we go - a little after the fact. I arrived in Delhi, but not my bag, to a brothel in the red light district near the airport. My driver warned me not to go out until morning. It wasn’t the plan, and I’m sure the person organizing our Delhi jaunt had no idea what she was getting us into. After 27 hours of flight and getting in at 2:30 am, I really didn’t care what was going on in the other rooms. I just needed to sleep.
Day one was spent finding breakfast, buying some clothes for the next few days, exchanging money, making many calls to Cathay Pacific to try to get my bag and waiting for the other 2 “Delhi Devas” to arrive.
Every time a new person arrived the front desk got me up to meet them. I was a little cranky by the time the last two arrived. I got about 4 hours of sleep and then it was time to rise early, 2:30 am again, to meet our driver to Agra to see the Taj Mahal at sunrise.
Sunrise really is the best time to visit the Taj. The light is perfect for taking photos, there are flocks of birds swooping through the gardens and there aren’t many tourist.
Our driver, Bobbi, was sound asleep when I found him parked near the hotel and it never got better. I was riding shot gun and kinda felt responsible for our safety. I tried conversation, singing the Gayatri Mantra with him and then just plain old barking at him when he nodded off and swerved into oncoming traffic. He was using coffee and Pan Masala (a stimulant one puts in the upper lip) to stay awake. Pan Masala is kinda like chew. A typical mixture of Pan Masala will contain fennel seeds as the base ingredients as well as other sugar coated seeds that may include sesame and coriander seeds, mint leaves, cardamom, powdered lime, pure menthol, catechu, betel nuts, areca nuts, and other flavorings may also be added to the mixture.
His life is tough. Like many of the drivers in India he works 14-17 hours a day (often sleeping in his vehicle) to support his family. On one hand I was upset that I wasn’t safe - at all, but I also didn’t want to get him fired. Another guy living the same way would get his job and he and his family would suffer. Face to face with my privileged life.
Needless to say the adrenaline was still coursing through our veins when we got to Agra and met our guide.
A wild ride, but the pay off was fantastic! We were lucky to be there on a day when although there was fog, the pollution levels were low - a rare day in Delhi. We lucked out with three lovely days.
The Taj Mahal is an immense mausoleum of white marble, built between 1631 and 1648 by order of the Mughal emperor Shah Jahan in memory of his favorite wife, who died in child birth. It is the jewel of Muslim art in India and one of the universally admired masterpieces of the world's heritage. It literally has semi-precious stones embedded in the walls.
We also went to the Agra Fort where multiple moats once filled with tigers, crocodiles and serpents protected the outer wall. If you made it through those three moats, guards with buckets of hot oil to douse you with awaited your arrival.
After our tour we enjoyed 2 hour brunch of delightful Indian food and the best bathroom I visited the entire trip - complete with jasmine flowers floating in water, a heated marble floor and linen hand towels. We wanted to move in and never go back to the brothel. If you visit Agra to see the Taj Mahal stay at the Trident Hotel. It is beautiful and only about $80/night. We didn’t want to leave and definitely didn’t want to return to the brothel. We spent the 3-hour ride back to Delhi making a reservation at another hotel. Thank goodness for pocket wifi and smart phones.
I’ll post a few photos below. Our “album cover shot” is from inside Agra Fort. I must say that after three days with these four women, I know I would trust my life with each one.
The story of Delhi will continue.
Next episode is our food tour with Raghu. I felt like Anthony Bourdain that day. It might have been our best tour all month.
“I remembered that the real world was wide, and that a varied field of hopes and fears, of sensations and excitements, awaited those who had the courage to go forth into it's expanse, to seek real knowledge of life amidst it's perils.” - Charlotte Bronte, Jane Eyre
Day two in Delhi after a decent night of sleep in our new hotel was spent with this guy. I like to imagine Anthony Bourdain spent some time with him in Delhi. He has a Masters degree in tourism, really knows the local food and history, and best of all he has an excellent sense of humor. An absolutely delightful human.
We walked around old Delhi and ate for 6 hours at stalls that had been in the family for up to 100 years. For those who think I live dangerously, I don’t. It was bottled water and carefully chosen vegetarian dishes all month long. I didn’t have any issues. All over India there is a veg version (as opposed to what they call non-veg) for just about any dish. The street food and the fancy restaurant food is all fabulous and we tried it all. I’m amazed I didn’t gain any weight. Here are some of the dishes and images from our day.
A visit to New Delhi isn’t complete without visiting the last home of Mahatma Gandhi. Many Indians have mixed feelings about Gandhi. Yes, he did much for the independence of India, but he also created dissonance amongst the Muslim and Hindu populations which had coexisted happily for thousands of years and he had limiting traditional views on how women should live. Our guide recommended one read his book: My Experiments with Truth. One of these days I’ll get to it. His story fascinates me.
Our guide also spoke of the caste system. It is subdued, but still evident. The government has implemented affirmative action laws, but in Ani’s opinion they created more problems than they solved. As an educated young man of the Kshatriyas caste he find himself overlooked for a candidate with less qualification from a lower caste. Society all over the world struggles with inequality.
This blog is fueled by Ginger Lemon Honey Tea! It quickly became my favorite afternoon tea when we were up North. It was the coldest winter in 118 years.
https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/travel/destinations/delhi-shivers-coldest-winter-since-1901-colder-than-shimla/as73008693.cms
I brought some warm clothes, but not nearly enough. Thank goodness for the light weight Woolx leggings and long sleeve t-shirt I packed. I wore them for about 15 days - taking them off only long enough to wash them and put them back on again. I also had a fleece, puffy jacket and wool socks. I never expected to live in them! Needless to say tea time was a much cherished comfort.
Upward and onward!
Next stop Sikkim!
Sikkim is a state in northeast India, bordered by Bhutan, Tibet and Nepal. Part of the Himalayas, the area has a dramatic landscape that includes India’s highest mountain, 8,586m Kangchenjunga. Sikkim is also home to glaciers, alpine meadows and thousands of varieties of wildflowers. Steep paths lead to hilltop Buddhist monasteries such as Pemayangtse, which dates to the early 1700s.
The Indian parliament announced that Sikkim officially became a state of India in 1973, but it maintains a tight border. We had to get a separate visa to cross the border. Good thing it didn’t take long. We only found out a couple of days before arriving at the border.
At the Sikkim airport we were greeted by our Buddhist teacher Toshi with the traditional white scarf and then drove about 3 hours through the hills to the Cherry Resort. I laugh as I write this because much to our surprise this “resort,” like most of the buildings in Sikkim and Nepal, had no heat! Thus, the long underwear journey began. The people up north are a hearty bunch! The doors and windows are usually open (actually a lot of the buildings don’t have doors) to let in the beautiful fresh air and sunlight.
Toshi prepared a traditional meal for us. It was delicious and I have no idea what the dishes were named… we had soup, rice, legumes, chapati and chai. He shared with us a detailed history of Buddhism and in particular the story behind the monasteries and monuments in the area. It was fun to stay in a resort where HHDL has stayed. A picture of his smiling face with the manager was proudly hung over the front desk.
We ran into some travel trouble as we left Sikkim. The Nepal border was further away than expected and it was so very cold we decided to leave a day early and take a bus to the border to catch our flight to Kathmandu. That took 8 hours. Our fantastic driver Shiva handled the narrow, hairpin turns like a pro - he often had to get out of the car and negotiate our passing. I wonder what he said that encouraged those truckers to let us go first.
We finally got to the airport for a flight on Buddha Air (no kidding) and it was cancelled. We were totally socked in with fog. Six hours later we decided to rent a bus and drive to Kathmandu. More narrow winding roads in a questionable bus with three young men taking turns driving. I wasn’t anxious or anything…
This ride will always be remembered as the the night of the “Night Bus” from Harry Potter. It was rickety, dirty and very drafty - more freezing cold. The drive was 14 hours long in the middle of the night on bumpy roads, navigating hairpin turns and the back wheels were making those scary slipping noises. No, we didn’t have compression brakes. There were a few times when I thought that it might be my last day on earth day and I had to remind myself that I chose to be here.
We stopped where the truckers stopped. Went around the corner when necessary and at one point stopped for two hours. I heard two different stories: 1) we stopped because rebels were raiding vehicles up the road and 2) the drivers wanted to rest. Hmmm, we had three drivers.
The reward in the morning: chai with a fabulous view. I’m sure we overwhelmed the chai wala. His face when we all ordered chai, tea and coffee revealed that the last thing he and his wife expected that morning was 21 American yogis stopping for early morning chai.
I have always wanted to visit Kathmandu! I think I just love saying the name and remember thinking it was this distant magical place. It certainly did not disappoint. We stayed in the Shechen monastery guest house. It was exactly how I pictured monks living - a simple room with small, very firm beds and a bathroom. Our’s had the luxury of a western toilet - that I didn’t expect. It’s nice to live at a monastery surrounded by graceful moving serene monks, hearing the bells for prayer and mediation at various hours starting very early in the morning and surrounded by lovely gardens with birds. And yet, it is right in the middle of the bustling city of Kathmandu within walking distance of the magnificent Bhoudha Stupa.
While in Kathmandu we visited the cultural city of Bhaktapur. Some of you will recognize it from the movie Little Buddha directed by Bernardo Bertolucci.
It is a beautiful city dating back to the 8th century and it is in a constant state of preservation. In 2015 it was hit hard with an earthquake.
Our host provided us with an interesting traditional Newari meal and told such a fun story about Ganesha and his power for locating lost things that I was compelled to bring home a little pocket Ganesha and the contact information for our host. He will make the proper offering for a few rupees if necessary. ;)
So far all lost luggage has been found.
Yogi will be visiting Seattle in the early summer. It would be fun to take him on a hike. So far he isn’t convinced that there are mountains in the United States. His daughter is attending college back East. Thus, he is convinced we don’t know what a mountain really is. The North Cascades might qualify. It would be fun to take him to Colchuck Lake.
Our next day trip was to Swayambhunath or the “Monkey Temple - which” is aptly named. Monkeys everywhere! They are scary. Like all wild animals one is best avoiding direct eye contact, hiding anything edible deep in the backpack and there will be no flirting with the babies.
Swayambhunath is among the oldest religious sites in Nepal. It was founded by the great-grandfather of King Mānadeva (464-505 CE) about the beginning of the 5th century CE. This seems to be confirmed by a damaged stone inscription found at the site, which indicates that King Vrsadeva ordered work done in 640 CE.
On to Rishikesh. It is known as the birthplace of yoga and I imagined a mild winter climate and plenty of asana practice at the Paramath Niketan Ashram which is right on the Ganga River. It was freezing. It was huge - 1,000 guest rooms. It was filthy. And, they didn’t reserve our rooms so we ended up in a dorm like room with one shower in a nasty bathroom. We were with the locals who tend to do a lot of retching at 4 am. I think it might be part of their Dinacharya practice - maybe clearing the nose and throat. Whatever was going on was loud! Ugh!
Equanimity where are you?
After our first lovely night of no sleep, we found out that the teacher we came to study with had fallen ill. I hope she is doing well now. We were fortunate to have class with her “daughter,” who isn’t her biological daughter, but the teacher who is the most advanced in her school and who will most likely be her successor. We had intense classes in Vedic chanting and the Bhagavad Gita. We also had Yoga Nidra class.
The intent of yoga Nidra is to remain awake, but in deep concentration. The teacher guides you through a body scan type of relaxation. I fell asleep once and got a little swat on the ankle. From the snoring I could hear in the far reaches of the room she needed a longer peacock feather. I just happened to be in arms length. What can I say? It had been weeks of little sleep and I intentionally bundled up to lay down on the marble floor.
The chanting class was great! I don’t feel like I’ll ever have to hum quietly or silently mouth the words when most of the Vedic chants come up in class. I might even be ready to lead a few. Induji repeated the lines and the rhythms over and over. This is how they are traditionally taught - as opposed to reading the words. It was interesting to learn that the melody of a Shruti chant doesn’t ever change, but the Smiriti chants are open to some personal interpretation. The actually tones of the Shruti Vedic chants are meaningful in and of themselves.
Rishikesh is also where I saw the Ganga River for the first time and I’m so glad it was up here where it is clean, blue green and swift moving. I lit a flower basket offering here in memory of my mother with the help of the man who sold it to me for 20 INR (27 cents).
The city is full of sacred cows, charming shops, yogis, sadhus (and fake sadhus) and ashrams. It is pleasantly walkable on both sides of the river and is the home of Ramana’s Garden, an orphanage which provides safety, education and a home with organic meals for 160 children. I’ll post a link.
http://sayyesnow.org/2018/09/02/ramanas-garden-childrens-home-2/
Ramana’s is a magical place where the woman who started it joined us for a delicious organic vegetarian meal with salad - real salad we could eat!! If I can figure out how to do it I’ll post a video of them singing Christmas carols with us. It was a Christmas I’ll always remember.
Rishikesh is also the home of the Beatles Ashram - Chaurasi Kutia, It was a 20 minute walk from our ashram. It’s a park now after years of sitting abandoned and being adorned with some amazing graffiti.
In February 1968 the Beatles traveled to Rishikesh to take part in a Transcendental Meditation (TM) training course at the ashram of Maharishi Mahesh Yogi. It later became their ashram.
Maharishi got in some trouble with the government - something to do with unpaid taxes or something like that and he had to leave, but the walls of his very cool home overlooking the Ganga (including a rarely seen in India, bathtub or hot tub if you will) is still somewhat intact.
It is too bad the ashram wasn’t kept up. It had the best hobbit house living quarters with a bedroom and bathroom downstairs and a meditation room above.
We had another truly frustrating travel day in which we missed our flight to Varanasi. If you can avoid the Delhi airport, do. One needs hours to transfer between terminals and get through airport security. The guards are not helpful. Of course there are separate lines for men and women and there are way more women traveling - women wearing saris and coats and they have bags and children.
Eventually we made it to that crazy city of music, intellectual pursuit, Hindu pilgrimage and cremation. Also known as Benares, Banaras or Kashi. It is on the banks of the river Ganges in Uttar Pradesh. It was the most intense city we visited.
According to Hindu legend, Varanasi is more than 5,000 years old and is considered the oldest city in the world, though evidence of habitation only goes back about 3,000 years.
It is overwhelming for the senses, the streets are packed, the ghat is packed with at least 16-20 cremations going on at the same time, the air is heavy with fog and the smoke of burning bodies and yet there is ancient beauty, spirituality and in my very fortunate experience, music by the great Mishra family.
I’ll share the stories with the pictures.
Next we were off to Tiruvannamalai After about a week I finally got that to roll off my tongue. Try it - a few times. It was another 12 hour bus ride. Apparently google maps had it at 6 hours - maybe as the crow flies. One could feel the transition to southern India - the heat ( 85-90 degrees), the language switched to Tamil and the Thalis got a bit spicer. They are a delicious collection of vegetarian dishes served on a banana leaf.
“There are temple towns, there are mountain towns, and then there are temple-mountain towns where God appears as a phallus of fire. Welcome to Tiruvannamalai, one of Tamil Nadu's holiest destinations.” - Lonely Planet
In Tiru we were met by our next teacher Saraswati Vasudevan who has a Yoga Therapy School in Chennai. She focused on the yoga sutras and the process of looking at an issue or concern or experience through the lens of the koshas, samskaras and the teachings of the yoga sutras. It was an intense study and we were in the perfect setting to absorb her wisdom.
We were living at a retreat in a rural setting with the the scared hill, Arunachala, as the back drop for our open air yoga loft. We were fed delicious organic vegetarian food prepared by the owner and her mother who are from Ashland, Oregon. Morning yoga class, tasty wholesome food, clean and cool sleeping arrangements in a simple, but comfortable bungalow and walks along the country roads renewed me.
After yet another tiring 8 hour bus ride we arrived after dark in Mysore and to our less than desirable hotel. All I can say is that the difference between a $25/night and $50/ night hotel is immense in India. Step it up and you will not be a hesitant to use the shower, get in bed or unzip your suitcase. I must say the staff gets a 5 star rating for their hospitality and when one of our group experienced a small electrical fire in their bathroom and when we just couldn’t stand the critters and grime in our room, they moved us quickly. We were still in the cheap rooms, but at least they were some what habitable. The location was great. I think I enjoyed the market in Mysore more than any others we visited. It was busy, colorful and we made friends.
Mysore is also known as Garden City, City of Yoga and City of Palaces. As you can see beautiful produce was bountiful and we were fortunate to get out of the city and visit Dr. Shankaranarayana Jois at his retreat Bharati Yoga Dhama on a quiet parcel of land, just south of Mysore, at the foot of the sacred Chamundhi Hill. Here, a herd of original-breed Indian cows provide immense benefits through the influence of their presence, while producing wonderful dairy products and fertilizer.
Bharati Yoga Dhama (BYD) is an Indian organization dedicated to preserving the teachings and wisdom of ancient Indian arts, sciences and Sanskrit language. BYD conducts summer yoga camps for Indians, regional outreach projects in neighboring villages, and adult education courses and seminars throughout the local region.
Thousands of Indian native plant species and trees have been planted in recent years with the intention of studying their yogic and ayurvedic properties. Through rigorous scientific study, BYD teachers and researchers hope to uncover many of the hidden secrets and medicinal benefits mentioned in ancient Samskrita texts associated with these species.
We also had daily lectures with Dr. Jois , who is also known as Archarya, in his home in Mysore. It was interesting to navigate my feelings about his dedication to preserve the classical knowledge and his opinion that only one who has direct lineage to the ancient yogis is qualified to teach yoga. Being as this heritage is passed down through patriarchal lineage we were face to face with some cultural differences. It led to an interesting discussion both in class and outside of class. His meaning here is the deep philosophy teachings of yoga. After much reflection and respectful discussion he gave us his approval of teaching as long as we only taught what we really are confident we know and that which we have learned from teachers who have had long and respectful relationships with teachers of heritage. Good call on his behalf with 20 female yoga teachers sitting in his lecture and receiving payment for one loyal American female teacher who brought students to him.
I’m glad there are teachers/historians like Archarya alive and sharing their knowledge with younger generations. He also also doing a lot to teach Indians about yoga and Ayurveda.
Week five and we’re on our way to Coimbatore. It was 11 hours in a bus that smelled like moth balls. What is it with the mothballs? They are in the drains in bathrooms to prevent critters from crawling up. I get that. But, as an air-freshener? No.
Anyway, we arrived at Vaidyagrama around 8:30pm and they welcomed us with dinner in our room. Ayurvedic dinner - so really bland wholesome food to support our digestive system while we undergo five days of healing - an awesome opportunity. Too bad we weren’t told this was the plan. I didn’t have the medical records they asked for to make this a more productive week for healing. When I had my intake interview I told the doctor that I’m a tourist and a yoga student and have been traveling for a month in less than ideal circumstances and I was tired. They weighed me, took my vitals, asked questions about my lifestyle, diet, sleeping patterns and any health issues I might want to address. Then Dr. Mini set up a protocol for me with an Ayurvedic concoction at 6 am, yoga at 7am, breakfast delivered to my room at 8am, an abhyanga massage , lunch delivered at 12 noon with my medications, another treatment in the afternoon - pummeling on my back with a ball of heated neem leaves, music class, dinner delivered to my room with medications and my bedtime concoction.
I felt so pampered. The oil massage involves a lot of oil - at least three cups of warm oil with herbs in it massaged into your body while you lay on a wood table with a cut out for your body so the oil doesn’t spill all over the floor. After the massage the therapist washes your body with graham grain and warm water, but a fair amount of oil is left on your skin and in your hair until the next day.
They recommend a 21 day stay to really clean your system and address your health challenges. They have great success with balancing blood sugar, lowering cholesterol, reducing chronic pain and chronic fatigue. I understand why. They provide excellent care for their patients - they check in on you several times a day. And, there really isn’t much to do there but rest and reflect.
We had asana practice and Deobrat Mishra joined us from Varanasi and taught the chanting classes. They offered yoga nidra classes, cooking classes and talks with the doctors covering every imaginable topic on Ayurveda.
I can imagine staying there for a 21 day cleanse. I loved walking around the rural setting, visiting the cows and reading. There was very limited wifi and the environment encourages the guest to be quiet and rest.